LOVE, OR LUST?
Do you believe in love? Or when you make out with a person are you just thinking about the sex? Lust or love? Which one do you believe you are in?
This question has merit as many people marry and a few years later they divorce. Were they ever in love? Or was it lust they were in and when they lost the sexual steamy attraction they lost interest in being together. Does this in fact not mean they may not have been in love? Tell me what you think?
I will admit to being in love three times, but many of the women I have had relations with were in point of fact lust! Hey, I admit I had great sex with them, but I must also admit it was only sex and there was not much of a connection. Now with Annette even though she has not been a warm or loving woman to me since 1983 I still love her and this is the very reason I have never cheated on her. Sure it's been very hard dealing with her and her not being a warm and loving person to me, but love does not leave or give up. Real love transcends everything everyone real love even beats death!
So, the last person you had sexual relations with was it love or lust?
This question has merit as many people marry and a few years later they divorce. Were they ever in love? Or was it lust they were in and when they lost the sexual steamy attraction they lost interest in being together. Does this in fact not mean they may not have been in love? Tell me what you think?
I will admit to being in love three times, but many of the women I have had relations with were in point of fact lust! Hey, I admit I had great sex with them, but I must also admit it was only sex and there was not much of a connection. Now with Annette even though she has not been a warm or loving woman to me since 1983 I still love her and this is the very reason I have never cheated on her. Sure it's been very hard dealing with her and her not being a warm and loving person to me, but love does not leave or give up. Real love transcends everything everyone real love even beats death!
So, the last person you had sexual relations with was it love or lust?
Comments
Blows me down and shiver me timbers. All this sex talk has me's so's I's awanting to screw that sexy Olive.
Looks like your the dolt Bart.
Marriage can be about lust then one ends up in divorce so maybe one should marry for love not lust.
The last time I had relations it was about love can you say that about your last time?
Sunday, 17 April, 2005
Instead of everyone just fornicating like nasty animals and causing diseases, they should abtain and date like it used to be. Show some responsibility and really get to know who you're thinking about marrying. There's no better way to do this.
Sunday, 17 April, 2005
Monday, 18 April, 2005
Jumping around like rabbits just doesn't cut it. I'm not saying you have to adhear by really strict rules, but be careful about dating. The old fashioned and traditional ways are always the best method.
Monday, 18 April, 2005
I am semi-paralized, aka from the waste down, and have been so for 5 years. I have not made love in 6 years. I don't remember what it is supposed to feel like. I know what it is to not make love when you have the option. Now that I do not have the option, I cannot remember what it feels like. My wife tastes like brussel sprouts. I am sad.
Love,
Bert
enjoy both.. both may exist together or not.. why somuch confusion..?
whats so bad about lust and sex.?
You sound hot ! I want to fuck you ! You me and Albert in a threesome .
I have another business meeting tonight, but I am committed to answering your questions and giving you some ideas or comments.
I will do my utmost to post tonight or Monday.
Note to Lilly, I can be your friend and I'll admit that If you are a sexy woman heck, yeah I would be tempted to have a good time.
I love women and making love to woman, but I will not cheat on my wife no matter how hard it may be to forego intimacy with her because of her issues. You see, Lilly, love and commitment will not allow me to be a disloyal husband and for this reason I can only offer you a friendship. Is that not enough? By the way everyone on this blog should know that indeed I was at Tom's Diner sitting on the otherside of the restaurant in the Marliyn Monroe booth having a meeting with a producer about the new blog I have up for PCTV 21, a community station in Pittsburgh, PA. Lilly, I was there from 3:00 PM to 5:00 PM and you were not there, my friend.
Lilly, are you even real? Or one of my friend playing a trick?
Show us who you are by taking a photograph with yourself holding up a current newspaper or better yet go someplace where we can tell it's a current event.
If you are a real person then I say to you accept my friendship, but don't try to rip loyalty away from me or my wife.
To bart and Conchetta, I may have some good ideas on about how to make things better, but I will need a bit more data if you are willing to share? If not,
I will still give you my ideas on your comments, but I don't want to give any bad advice or make anyone upset. I will say I am honored to have everyone of you making comments. I am also thankful for all of your comments. This is great.
Keep in mind I'm just a man who has no degree psychology nor am I a doctor.
So, any advice I may give to you I advise you to ask the experts such as a doctor before you do anything I may suggest.
I am just a guy who cares about every human being on earth and yes, that means even people who may hate me for any reason.
I also have to state I even welcome those who don't like anything I say because as a true believer in the freedom of speech I say if you can think it you should be able to express it. And I hope one day all people on this planet shall have that freedom.
Thank you my friends
Albert
I feel we have a lot in common.
If Americans lose free speech then in point of fact we have lost America. It may look and feel like America without free speech but it would not be America and that would mean all of the men and women who fought for freedom over the last 229 years would have died in vein.
Do you love the woods as much as me?
I will check out your blog as much as I can.
Freedom of speech is what keeps America strong these fools in Congress trying to change that are in fact not Patriots at all.
I am no doctor, but I would like to know what is going on?
Bert, my friend, you do know that sex can be wonderful, but you must use your mind to take away the limits your body has given you. I know how hard that can be and I know what being limited can feel like.
I would say to you that you should have your wife hold you, kiss you and that you should close your eyes and think of what it felt like before and then make your brain be what lifts your lovemaking to the level where one can have no limits.
I know while you read this you may be saying what a load of crap and I can't promise what I say will work, but I can tell you this if you don't at least try it you'll never know if it will work. The mind is the most important sexual organ in a human being and I think that you should at least try it Bert, but as I say I'm no doctor so you could just tell me to shut the heck up if you like.
BA = Before Annette would have to answer that as for being a mad doctor I'm not mad.
Bert, I thank you for being willing to tell us about your life.
I just hope that you will find new ways to be happier in your sexual relationship with your wife.
You can e-mail me anytime you wish Bert, and I hope what I said did not make you upset I am just trying to help.
Hey why do you keep changing the name of your blog?
Nope Joe works wit me on the tech section of the blog and he likes to change it sometimes.
We know this was Davy right blog friends.
I write the post and do some tech stuff and Joe does the tech stuff I have not learned about yet.
Al knows because he's a Midget.