Why I have it on every post and e-mail.

Why I say Sometimes standing up for one makes you the leader of many.


I made a post but I think it is better that you click the link to learn why I have this motto.

Note: I don't think myself to be special that I would risk my life to save another life. I think we should all be this way as what we gain makes it worth the risk.

Now, that you know you shall understand why I keep it in all e-mail and post.
Read word file.

Here it is, but remember you asked for it.


Why I say sometimes standing up for one makes you the leader of many. Read word file.

Well, I am saying that if we do our part to insure that all people are treated fairly, get equal education, justice, pay, and are not harmed then by doing that for just one person can make you a leader in the eyes of many. This must not be why we do this. We must do it as it is what is right and just.

It is for us to do this as we would want others to do this for us should we ever need it.

Example: In high school I had a friend who was an exchange student. Well everyday a group of eight guys would put junk in his food at lunch or punch him and abuse him in other ways including verbal. I would sit there and want to take action to defend him, but he did not want to cause trouble he would say to me. I said to him not eating your food is going to make you not do well in school and you'll get weak, but he said please do nothing. I reluctantly agreed.

On one school day they put milk in his food then mustard in his remaining food. I did nothing, I was angry, but did nothing then I had my coat on the lunch table and it went on their section. One of them took my coat and threw it on the ground! I got pissed and said pick up my coat and leave it there it is not bugging you just leave me alone.

He refused so I told his friends have him pick it up now. Well, this got me to stand up in the lunch room and I said look, you may do this shit to my friend and other people, but not me! Next thing I know he stands up and I say another thing.

You will forever quit bugging my friends then four more stand up. I stood there as stern as possible. I said pick up the coat please nothing was done.

I said I'd pick it up or I'll get pissed. Three more stand up so now we have all of them standing up against one, Just me! My friend was afraid of them. Then he said what the fuck you going to do about it, wimp? I said wimp? Is that so I'm a wimp? Then one of the other boys said yeah, you are. At this point I said your picking up my coat now and if you don't I'll beat the hell out of you for not picking it up and for picking on my friend all this time so pick the coat up you fucking asshole!! Well, he said you against all of us?

I said you got it prick! Now or after school, you choose! Well, school lets out and here I am all by myself taking on these punks. I said you'll beat me, but I'd call your mother first. All of you should because even though I'll lose 8-1 I'm damn sure going to hurt one or two of you and I'm not holding anything back so one of you might die. I said this is a fight to the death for me as I see it after all 8-1 a guy could get killed, but I'm taking out some of you mother fuckers!! Well, to my shock they backed off. I have no idea why unless they really thought I would be able to hurt them very badly or kill one? But, they never did bother me or my friends again. In fact three of them believe it or not became our friend and the other ones would say hi to us all the time and this is what I mean when I say sometimes standing up for one makes you the leader of many. It made these kids see that not everyone will back down even with such great odds and it caused many kids in my school not to be picked on.

To them I guess they may have thought I was a leader, who know? What I do know is those eight punks became good people and they all stayed in school. I saw one a few months ago and he is doing well in life, he has three children of his own. I'd like to tell you I know why they backed down, but I don't. I just never asked, it did not seem to matter after that showdown and I was just glad that nobody got hurt plus we gained a few friends.

As for other examples: well, I have gone to court to help friends, former friends and family to fight for their rights. I just believe we must defend one another and start loving one another.

So, the motto stays or one like it will always be in all post and e-mail.

Sometimes standing up for one makes you a leader of many.

Comments

Anonymous said…
You dolt ! It doesn't open ! Publish it here!
Anonymous said…
It doesn't open and says possible virus !
Anonymous said…
It doesn't Work AJ. But click my name for something interesting.
Albert Torcaso said…
It should have worked I got it to open but I'll post it now brats ha, ha, ha.
Anonymous said…
It opens for me. I read it and it is very long winded. You need to calm down a little bit, Al.
Albert Torcaso said…
David, It is what happened yes, it is long but, it is also an account of what happened I just gave the facts man.
Anonymous said…
and it took you 40 years to decide to suddenly add it to all your mail and post?
Albert Torcaso said…
No, and it was not forty years. I just never felt I needed to explain myself I figured everyone would get the idea.
Anonymous said…
So then why are you posting that saying now? It took you all this time to think it up?
Anonymous said…
I've heard him talk about this before. There's nothing wrong with it. So Al's a tough guy as well as a wise guy. I think everyone in their school days has had experiences that we, too, could talk about. Maybe this is his way of having group session.
Anonymous said…
Ahhhhhhhh A group session.
Yes maybe he needs that.
Albert Torcaso said…
No, David, it is not Jeff and Jen wanted to know why I had that saying in every post so I told them.


I'm not tought I feel we all must act as I did then and still would do today.
Anonymous said…
But since it is your REASON for posting your saying every message, then you must be still having a mental problem with it.
Albert Torcaso said…
No, David, I want to see people be kind to others and stand up for their fellow human beings.
Anonymous said…
How does your story make people want to be kind to others?
Anonymous said…
It makes me want to go and beat someone up.
hope and love said…
that was a good post albert..
Anonymous said…
It opens fine for me, but I agree that you are a dolt!!! What in the hell are you posting the Word document for if you are posting the whole damn thing! DOLT!!!
Anonymous said…
hehehe Oh AJ my husband often said that very thing.
Mountain Man said…
Why is everyone so hard on Albert? I like this story. He can say whatever he wants, it's his blog. If you don't like it you can make your own blog wherein you can write your own childhood ideology performances. Albert is giving and wants to be a benevolent leader, which is quite lovely and something I can relate to.
Anonymous said…
He can say whatever he wants, that is true. Believe me, I, for one, am not trying to prevent him from putting his big old foot into his wide-assed mouth. Al is not giving in terms of his blog. He is taking. He wants to take you on a trip through his brain where rabid animals rule and flowers can bite.
Anonymous said…
Oh Albert is so cute. If only I had seen him before getting married. *Sigh*
Anonymous said…
Flowers can bite? Yeah AJ would have zombie flowers LOL
Anonymous said…
Ever click on any of AJ's blogger links? Ever notice how many of them lead to gay sites? Dykes mostly.
Anonymous said…
They do? Way too many to click on. Someone has way too much time on their hands LOL.
Anonymous said…
My husband was a a benevolent leader much like out current president.
Albert Torcaso said…
Blaine, my friend are you a dolt? That's funny. Well, Blaine, if you read the comments it is because some of the visitors to my blog were unable to open the link. Get it now?

I could get rid of the text again but If other people can't open it they will be upset so, I have both.

Hope and Love thank you for the kind words, they help inspire me everyday.

David, it shows that when we choose to help another person it most always helps us as well.
I found new friends from it and my other friend no longer was abused this is how it should inspire others to act.

Thanks Mountain Man, I don't know about being a leader per say but, I do feel we need to help each other more and we should live life to help others live full lives. We can go far and succeed even more when we help others succeed as well.


Why must one try to censor freedom? What is wrong with links to gay sites? I'm not gay but all people must enjoy freedom of speech.

I shall not care who they are but that they are.

Pittsburgh Bloger linked me and I linked them we help each other what is wrong about that?
Anonymous said…
A great dane went into a bar to get a drink and noticed that no other dog had a leash around their necks. Then he realized that he was at a "stray" bar!
Anonymous said…
LOLOLOL
Mountain Man said…
A group session with rabid animals and biting flowers sounds like a great place to be. Keep up the good work, Albert. Everyone's criticism of you just keeps proving your worth instead of deflating you. These bunch of riff raff are strange and clueless, but fun to read anyway.
Anonymous said…
Yes we are rather fun are we not? If not for us this would be a boring place.
Anonymous said…
What does all this mean?
Anonymous said…
What do you have in every post and e-mail? I'm so confused. Go see my movie. It sucks but so do I.
Albert Torcaso said…
Paris Hilton that's funny I wonder who made this one up? If she really saw this she would be very mad.
Anonymous said…
Paris blows !
Albert Torcaso said…
That comment was rude!!!!!!!!!!!!
Anonymous said…
Ok. AJ blows.
Albert Torcaso said…
No I don't my dear but do you? I'm not sure you should answer that question.
Anonymous said…
Wish I had the time I read that back. What a waist of some of my life. What a fucking loser!
Anonymous said…
For the record, Al does blow.
Albert Torcaso said…
I touch the hearts of women as I am a man who loves women.
Anonymous said…
and men too. In how I love my men.
Anonymous said…
Albert simply adores Marines! Oh, my God! He used to say how he could just bite them! Albert's so damn frisky!

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